Do I have to be Jewish?
No, I have experience and enjoy working with all types of people from many different backgrounds. One of the things I appreciate most about Judaism is that we acknowledge that everyone has a divine place here in G-d's world. You be you and I'll be me.
Do you meet all your clients in person?
I prefer to meet my clients in person for their initial consultation and it is a huge benefit to you.
But due to several factors, I do not require it, that appointment can be arranged to be completed by phone.
However, when I am introducing you to someone, you may ask me if I already met them in person.
Some of my clients prefer to meet other clients that I have met in person.
What is the advantage of using this type of service over other methods, an online service for example?
This is really up to each individual but I will tell you what my clients appreciate about it.
I work alot with people who are community leaders and they prefer not to have their profile and private life posted on a dating site.
Unfortunately, most dating web sites have no quality control. Therefore, there seem to be alot of scams and people playing games. So I have heard it can take alot of time to find just one quality prospective match.
My clients tend to be professionals who are busy and simply do not have alot of time to sit online sifting through profiles themselves, they are outsourcing that job to us.
My clients also like having a mediator. No direct rejection necessary on a date.
I could go on and again it varies for each client.
I am new to town and just want to make some new quality friends and business contacts, can I join?
Yes, anyone can join for that purpose and it works a little differently than our normal introductions as it requires less involvement and coaching on our end. For example, we let you have each other's contact information after the first time you meet and both agree.
Do I have to be looking for marriage?
Yes and no. As mentioned above, I connect all kinds of people for all kinds of purposes. Including introducing people who I think may hit it off as good friends or business partners. However, I specialize in only matching people romantically that are serious about getting married. To be clear, this is not a dating service and I do not work with alternative lifestyles.
What if I am already married?
If you are already married, you can become a client to meet other successful quality people for platonic purposes, such as for business or friendship.
However, if you are legally married and are joining because you are romantically inclined then you must have been legally separated for at least one year and legal divorce proceedings should at least be in progress and filed on court record. It is advisable to also consult your state law and attorney if your divorce is not yet final.
How does it work?
Please read the overview page and let me know if you have any more questions.
What age range will I date?
The general rule is that women date a few years younger and up to about ten years older than themselves. Outside of those parameters is possible but uncommon. I do not take clients that have unrealistic expectations as for me it shows a sign that the person is not yet serious.
I am embarrassed, if this works out and a relationship blossoms, how will I say I met this person?
This is really a personal choice. You can say you were introduced through a mutual friend.
Or even better, give a good referral!
How many clients do you have in my area?
This information is kept private, mainly because it is misleading. I could have hundreds or thousands of clients in your area but it doesn't matter, this is not a dating service, we are looking for your one special person.
The other reason this is not accurate is because you will not be limited to date only my other clients. I am networked with people and other matchmakers internationally thus exposing you to many different possibilities. Therefore, hypothetically speaking, if you were my only client you would actually benefit the most. It would be like a mother looking to marry off her only child.
Last but not least, I will be coaching you to find the best resources available to help you achieve your goals in addition to your working with me.
How much does it cost?
There are several different options.
Please contact us to figure out which one best fits your lifestyle and budget.
Modest Matchmaking's policy is that no one is ever turned away due to a lack of funds.